Growing up in a large family in Manhattan's
Irish Inwood in the 1970's, gave Damian all the
necessary essentials for a very happy childhood.
Six older brothers, an older sister and a baby
sister set the tone for a perpetual smile and
a unique laugh that became a very integral part
of his personality. His big brothers, Shaun, Michael,
Eugene, Kevin, Chris and Paul, while always creating
obstacles and torment in his daily life, grew
to love, protect and admire this most gentle of
siblings. His sisters Kitty and Janine just adored
him from day one.
Damian's loving nature made his life a very happy
experience. He was such a happy kid and people
loved being around him. His easygoing personality
and perpetual smile endeared him to a wide circle
of friends. He attended Good Shepherd grammar
school in Inwood and made many close friends there
that would stay with him through life. As a child
he played in Inwood Hill Park and spent his summers
at the Four Green Fields. Both Inwood and the
Four Green Fields, played major roles in his early
and developing years, that led to friendships
that were to last a lifetime.
Damian was so trustworthy, that his parents allowed
him to travel by subway to attend Power Memorial
High School. Unfortunately, Power closed in 1984,
just after Damian's freshman year, so he decided
to finish at St. Raymond's in the Bronx, where
a few of his brothers also attended. Upon graduation,
Damian chose SUNY New Paltz for college. Two years
later, his Dad convinced him that there was more
to learn at home. Damian decided to join his sister
Janine at Lehman College, where he was first introduced
to Janine's friend, Joann McCarthy. It was definitely
love at first sight - and the rest is history.
While in college, Damian worked at the Columbia
Tennis Center in Inwood, along with various bartending
jobs throughout the city. In August of 1993, Damian
decided to try Wall Street and it was his brother-in-law,
Marty Boyle, that introduced him to the wild world
of finance. He worked for Dean Witter, which later
became Carr Futures, and he came under the guidance
and counsel of Brendan Dolan and they became fast
friends for the rest of their lives.
On
June 6, 1998 , at the age 29, Damian married
the love of his life, Joann McCarthy at Mount
St. Ursula Church. They were just a perfect couple; so much love, devotion and
respect that was obvious to all. They settled in Riverdale. The following
year they bought a house in Glen Rock, NJ near
their friends Brendan and Stacey Dolan, and Kathy and Joe Holland.
On January 23, 2000, Damian Peter, Jr. was born
- the arrival of Damian, Jr. could not have been
more perfect. It was a great time in Damian's
life. He loved being a father and cherished every
minute spent with his son. He was so proud of
little Damian and always boasted about his accomplishments.
They had their own rituals. Every night, little
Damian would stand on the couch and watch out
the window for his "gogga-gogga" to
come home from work, and if Damian got home after
little Damian's bedtime, his Dad would immediately
go into his room and stand over his crib and talk
to him while he slept. It was an unbelievable
bond.
Damian was a gifted athlete. Gaelic football
was a big part of his life from a very young age;
he won every under-age medal with Good Shepherd
as a full back and continued at Junior and Senior
grades with additional success. When Good Shepherd
could no longer field a full team, Damian went
to play for Donegal, along with Dave Mc Sweeney,
another former Good Shepherd player. Those were
great years for Damian, as he took immense pride
in the fact that he was playing for his parent's
native county team. He trained really hard and
thoroughly enjoyed playing at this top level at
Gaelic Park and internationally as part of the
New York panel.
Damian also enjoyed running, even more so in the
last few years, when he began competing in races
with his brothers and sister, Kitty. Damian was
an excellent runner, his siblings watched in awe,
as he ran the toughest hills effortlessly, and
always managed to have the fastest time. Damian
also enjoyed golfing and did so quite often with
his brothers, extended family and childhood friends
from Inwood, Chris Lee and Donn McNamee.
Most of all, Damian was a "family-man",
in every sense of the word. He loved going up
to the Four Green Fields because it meant spending
time with family and close friends and sharing
many laughs. He loved playing Bingo and the card
games that followed in the dance hall into the
wee hours of the morning. He looked forward to
participating in the basketball tournament every
July 4th and Labor Day weekend. Last Labor Day
weekend, Damian spent quality time with his family
and friends at the Four Green Fields, and had
a great weekend. Everything was perfect. Damian
was always making plans for next month and for
the next five years. Life was so good: health,
happiness and a secure future. Little did we know
that we were all enjoying the very best time of
our lives. A week later, came the devastation
of September 11th, leaving such so much pain,
anguish, devastation and heartache that will never
heal. Life will never be the same again.
In the early hours of October 2nd, Damian's
brothers Michael, Eugene and Kevin brought us
the tragic-yet joyful news that Damian had been
recovered on Monday, October 1st with a bunch of firemen
and civilians on West Street. The news was so
final - we had lost our beloved Damian forever.
Damian's wake at William's Funeral Home was
an incredible scene, as thousands came to
say goodbye to our Damian, and yet again
at Good Shepherd Church on October 8th, as
Father Kevin Devine led us all in a final
farewell to one of the most beautiful human
beings ever created. Damian now rests in
peace at St. Anastasia Cemetery in Harriman,
New York.
On January 13th 2002, Damian and Joann's little
daughter, Madison Margaret was born and it
was finally a day to rejoice. Damian Jr. is
delighted with his baby sister.
We will never forget Damian and we will all
make sure that his children know the type of
man their father was. For all of us, our Damian
was truly one of a kind.
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